Slowing down is how we catch our breath


Hi reader,

As usual, I was caught up in a myriad of activities and pressed for time, and I ate my lunch standing up.
No music, no peace, just me… chewing while pacing between my desk and the sink like a cartoon character.
It wasn’t until hours later that I said, “Hold up, did I even taste this food that I had eaten?"

Seriously, that's how most of us function, from breakfast to bed to work—no peace, no break.

So here’s your Friday reminder from a woman who’s still learning to listen to her body:

You don’t have to move fast just because the world does.

  • You can stretch before replying.
  • Sip your tea slowly.
  • Let yourself pause, even when the list isn’t done.

Stop postponing rest till you are almost bedridden.
Sometimes, slowing down is the smartest, bravest thing you can do.

P.S.
I’ve been learning some very interesting things in my new nutrition class (and no—it’s not about dieting or drinking green juice 🙄😏)
If you are interested in losing weight without a diet plan or vigorous exercise, stay tuned.

Take a moment for yourself this weekend.
Oly

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