Just a little check-in, from me to you.


Hi Reader,

On Tuesday, I asked you a simple but powerful question: What’s one thing you’re doing for yourself this week?

Maybe you said, “I’ll drink more water,” or “I’ll rest,” or “I’ll stop feeling guilty for doing less.” Or maybe life got loud, and you forgot to choose anything at all.

That’s okay.

This is a cue to pause and do something for you now that you still have time. Even if all you do is take 5 quiet minutes to breathe. Or stretch. Or sit in stillness without rushing to the next thing.

You don’t need to tick off a list to matter. You don’t need to earn your rest.

You just need to remember: You are good. You are enough. You are loved.

I watched Tall Girl 2 recently, and it hit me in a soft place. Watching her wrestle with panic attacks, feeling like she had to prove her worth, and doubting if she was good enough, I felt that. Maybe you have witnessed such too. But here’s the truth: You’re allowed to take up space exactly as you are.

As we close the week, here are a few tiny things you can do just for you:

  • Take a slow walk with no agenda
  • Put your phone away and breathe deeply for 3 minutes
  • Watch a movie that makes you feel seen (try Tall Girl 2 on Netflix)
  • Journal your wins, whether small or big
  • Say this out loud: “I’m doing my best, and that’s enough today.”

It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing one thing that makes you feel more like yourself.

With care, Oly

Founder, HerActiveLife

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