The Frozen Brain: What to do when you feel mentally stuck


You know that feeling:
You're sitting in front of your laptop.
Your to-do list is breathing down your neck.
You're not tired… But somehow, you can’t move.

That’s not laziness.
That’s catatonic fatigue, a silent, sneaky burnout symptom most people don’t talk about.

What does being catatonic mean?

This stuck, frozen state can happen when your nervous system is overloaded and your brain quietly shuts down “non-essential” tasks like emails, dishes… even getting up.

You’re not avoiding things. Your energy level is just very low.

How to snap out of catatonia?

→ Wiggle something small
Fingers. Toes. Neck rolls. Just do a gentle motion that tells your brain you’re safe.

→ Use the 2-minute rule
Set a timer. Do one thing. Just start; that’s often the unlock.

→ Ground your senses
Touch a warm mug. Sip water. Hold a smooth object. Let your body catch up with your brain.

→ Add soft background sound
Nature audio or lo-fi beats can unfreeze your senses gently.

→ Do small but steady exercises
For myself, I love to play music, dance around, or do some jumping jacks. Other times, I take a walk around the neighbourhood to reconnect.

Final Word:

Your brain’s fine.
It’s overworked, under-rested, and craving gentleness.

It's the weekend already; give yourself permission to pause and restart slowly.

You deserve that.

With care,
Oly from HerActive

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